Your one-stop shop for becomingĀ a happy-ish,
healthy
mom who's
humbly rejoicing in Jesus.Ā
The Fellowship combines the power of a grace-filled community where you can be known, with thoughtful leadership and sound theology, so that you can:Ā
- Know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are NOT the only one and you are NOT alone.
- Learn how to apply the gospel to your daily life, using the sin and struggle often so tangible and unique in motherhood as a catalyst to draw nearer to Christ and enjoy him more.Ā
Join Sara Sery, founder of Bad Christian Moms, in The Fellowship.
Let's Do This
Access
Courses, downloads + processes for transforming your family by starting with yourself.
Participate
Participate in coaching sessions to get feedback and help in your real life and struggles.
Grow
In spiritual depth and maturity alongside a private community of gospel-hungry, drama-free mamas.
It's a challenging and confusingĀ time to be a mom.
There are so many competing voices telling you how you should parent, discipline and raise your kids.
It's a challenging and confusing time to be a Christian.
It can feel impossible to discern what it means to be a "good Christian."
There is so much pressure on you to be a "good mom" and a "good Christian." It can feel like the success of your children, their eternal destiny, even, depends entirely on you and your "performance."
Of course, you want to:
BE FREE
of the guilt and shame that puts you to bed at night
BEĀ EMPOWERED
by learning to take your thoughts captive instead of spiraling destructively
BEĀ MORE PATIENT
rather than just fake it
ENJOY
the little moments with your kids instead of sabotaging it with the to-do list
LET GO
of the resentment you harbor toward your husband
FEEL HOPEFUL
that your kids will want to stay connected and close (AND be interested in Jesus!)
SHARE THE GOSPEL
with your kids in a humble, authentic and compelling way
SO THAT:
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your kids can have a happy mom
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you stop missing out on their childhood and actually enjoy it
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your marriage will be stronger than ever when the nest empties, rather than left in shambles
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creativity and joy can dominate your family culture, rather than shame, anxiety, anger and disappointment
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you can look forward to a lifetime of connection and conversations with your kids as they grow into adulthood
BUT you have no idea how to even start toĀ changeĀ let alone sustain it. All you really want...is a nap.
I'VE BEEN THERE.
I'm Sara, the Bad Christian Mom life coach. š
When I got pregnant with my first baby (surprise!) I was in the middle of getting a Master's in Counseling from a seminary. Taking Master's level parenting and childhood development classes, I thought, surely, I'd be a great mom.
My bulldozer of a first child (and the 2 brothers that followed) quickly revealed parts of me I was horrified to discover: anger, bitterness, snarky parenting, losing a temper I had never known I had.
I often felt ashamed of myself and would wallow in guilt and self-pity over my childish reactions.
Over time, however, what they were preaching Sunday after Sunday at my sweet little church, began to sink in in an entirely new way.
The books we read, the women's Bible study there, the preaching and the teaching was getting the gospel I knew in my head to penetrate deeper, darker places in my heartĀ AND teaching me how to apply that gospel in the real, daily, mundane sins and struggles of life as a mom with young kids.
Now it is my absolute delight to bring all that juicy theology to bear on your mundane sin and struggle, too, and help you, in the midst of motherhood, to see "the light of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ" shining on YOU every. day.
Not to mention all the other topics I love to study, break down and then teach to my clients: from parenting, marriage and sex; to habits and planning; to neuroplasticity and psychology.
It's always a party! š„³
Join Me In The Fellowship
A "happy-ish, healthy mom who's humbly rejoicing in Jesus" needs a few key things:
- She needs a grace-filled community where she can be known, where she can be honest and real, AND receive solid and loving care and feedback.
- She needs to grow in her understanding of who Jesus is, what He's really like and why the gospel matters in her life now (not just when she first got saved).
- She needs to be working toward her goals, even if it's just one baby step at a time, under leadership that prioritizes not only progress over perfection but relationship over perfection.
INTRODUCING
The Fellowship
Inside you'll get in-depth teaching from Sara,Ā a supportive community of like-minded mamas who "get it," and access to the 3 core BCM courses.
Rita:
"Honestly this group has changed my life and I can't wait to see how much more the Lord helps me grow through my issues."
Megan:
"My marriage is in such a better place and my kids donāt feel they have to walk on eggshells when Mom gets home from work."
When you join the membership, you'll:
- Learn how to take your thoughts captive and manage your mind so that destructive thoughts don't derail another day that you could be enjoying those precious kids.
- Ā Receive live coaching and teaching from Sara multiple times each month.
- Join a thriving, supportive community of fellow gospel-hungry, drama-free mamas who genuinely want to connect and build real friendships.
You Get:
Core Courses
Walking you through the process of change so that you can have a mature and well-managed mind to guide you through your life.
Your Calling, Clarified
What is God's will for your life? Are you "living out your calling?"
In this course, I teach you a repeatable process to discern your vocation (calling). Most of your vocations change throughout the seasons of your life. A couple don't. Sorting that out can help position you to stay calm and content, focused on what God is actually calling you to and able to let go of what he is not.
Your Shame, Crucified
Shame does not want to be detected. It stays under the radar, quietly separating you from God and from others.
Shame sounds like this:
"Why did you just do that?"
"What's the matter with you?"
"If people really knew you they wouldn't like you."
"Nobody likes you."
"You fool. Did you think you were good at that?"
"You don't deserve these children."
And many other insidious phrases, often half-true, all designed to keep you from what you made for: connection and creativity. In this course, I will teach you how to recognize this voice, "shirk the shame" and connect and create, emboldened by God's love for you poured out on the cross of Jesus Christ. This one's my baby, y'all, I love this course!
Your Thoughts, Captivated
Has anyone ever taught you how to manage your mind?
How many hours/week do you spend cleaning your house? 1? 5? more? How many hours/week do you spend cleaning up your mind? Have you ever been taught how to do that?
You know the Bible verses: take every thought captive and be transformed by the renewing of your mind and out of the heart the mouth speaks and whatever is praiseworthy and good, etc. think of these things....but has anyone ever walked you through the process, step by step, of how to have a disciplined thought life? In this course I will teach you how to practice having a captivated thought life, proactively directing those thoughts to the BEST thoughts, the ones that God Himself has already given us to think.
You Get:
Community
Experience a grace-filled community where you can be known, supported, challenged and cared about.
The Fellowship community is your squad:
gospel-hungry, drama-free mamas, excited to support, challenge and befriend you.
- private, safe, motivated community of like-minded mamas all committed to working on their own transformation
- off-social-media online platform minimizes distractions while still providing connection
- 24/7 access toĀ a professionally-moderated forum for giving and receiving solid advice, feedback and encouragement
Aubrey:
"Having the community of other perfectly imperfect Christian women surrounding me helps me to see Iām not alone in my struggle, and also helps provide accountability for going through the coursework. Iāve started revamping my relationship with Jesus and learning more about who He is from the courses and other women in the group, and that in itself has started a shift in my entire worldview!"
Brittany:
"The 24 hour access- if it's 3 in the morning and I'm stressed out I can go pour my heart out on the page and the ladies are pretty quick to interact. Everybody pretty much wholeheartedly cares about you and whatās going on in your life."
You Get:
Coaching
Group Coaching Calls keep you motivated, engaged and accountable to the changes you are committed to making.
At least 2 calls every month.
- One to go deeper in the content
- Another to learn how to actually apply it in your daily lifeĀ
- Access to Live Room all hours of the day
- Bonus calls for socializing, extra trainings and guest coaching opportunities
Every day is an opportunity.
But, if you're drowning in your responsibilities and a far cry from the mom you thought you'd be, you might feel like you keep wasting each day's opportunity.
If you're stuck at home, alone with the kids every day, struggling to change butĀ feeling alone, ashamed, confused and far from God....Or if you're doing your best to juggle all the things: work, kids, marriage, church, but feel empty inside, burnt out and unsure what to do about it...be encouraged.
It's normal to not be able to grow and transform all alone, not really known by anyone.
You were made for community because you made in the image of a God who is a community: Father, Son and Holy Spirit. š„³
So,Ā go give yourself the gift ofĀ some community, momentum and guidance from The Fellowship and your whole family will reap the benefit. You are, afterall, the anchor the home. It's not selfish to invest some of the family's resources into theĀ one who's holding everything together.
All for just $497/year
Or just $47/month
For a program worth more than $4,800
-> I'M READY! Click Here To Join The FellowshipNo sign up fees. No cancellation fees.Ā
Money back guarantee: if within the first 30 days you're not seeing the benefit of being in The Fellowship, you will be refunded your initial payment, so no money will be lost.
Karrie:
"This is a way to connect without shame. We donāt throw each otherās sin back in each otherās face. Weāre in this together. Moms need that. It's freeing to have other ladies say, 'I've thought that too. I've been there. I've done it. This is what helped me.' Versus doing it all alone."
Liz:
"Sara helped me know the Jesus I always wanted to know but didn't know I could know."
Kendra:
"Having a group of like-minded Christian moms is super important to my walk as a mother of faith. Parenting in this day and age is HARD. Like REALLY hard. Having supportive Christ centered, non-perfect momma's whose goal is to really truly love and trust the Lord and grow in our faith, parenting, relationships, etc is crucial and I so appreciate it!"
No sign up fees. No cancellation fees.Ā
Money back guarantee: if within the first 30 days you're not seeing the benefit of being in The Fellowship, you will be refunded your initial payment, so no money will be lost.
You are the kind of mom I had in mind when I created this if any of these ring true...
- You'reĀ not enjoying being a mom as much as you thought you were going to (or think that you should).
- Guilt is putting you to bed at night and dread wakes you up in the morning.
- You wonder if it's ok to drop an f-bomb into your prayers.
- You sometimes feel like a terrible mom and wonder if you're ruining your kids.
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YouĀ do things you know you shouldnāt (Like watch Bridgerton and like it or tell the kids they canāt have ice cream b/c youāre planning on eating the rest of it after they go to bed or tell your husband you have cramps when really youāre just not in the mood, that kind of thing.)
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You have nagging questions about God or the church but don't have a good place to ask them.
- In spite of all these things, you still find yourself with a sneaking suspicion that all you long for is really, truly, somehow going to be met in the person of Jesus Christ.
If any of that sounds like you AND
You are ready to deepen your understanding of the gospel and apply it to your every day life, alongside other gospel-hungry mamas, so that you can show up for your kids with "love, power and a sound mind," then this is absolutely for you.
